Don't you absolutely hate it when family members who've been ignoring you for years and decades come calling when they find out you're a millionaire without them? We all have rotten family members who blew us off when we're down and out and broke. Once they find out in secrecy the same family member they blew off, then they want to come out of the Woodworks trying to speak or speaking through other family members wondering where their cut of the money is.
Those are the type of family members you have to dismiss and ignore when they come calling for money. It's a sad fact to know that every family has family members like that that treats them less than a family member, yet quick to reflex to react when the less than nothing classified family member turns rich. Forgive those family members who passed judgement on you.